How 2 Move Past Your Past................
- Clean your record, do a background check, dispute or resolve any issues, seal your records when possible (especially juvenile offences).
- repair your credit, dispute discrepancies, anything pat seven years or more should fall off, , make payment arrangements on past due accounts, and keep them! pay your bills on time.
- FORGET!!! And move away from old negative people places,bad habits, party buddies and Exes, For example, you can achieve this by; stopping or limiting, drug and alcohol use, and yes this means stop smoking so much weed, LOUD, chronic or whatever the hell you want to call it. Definitely give up smoking cigarettes. It is taking years off your life, and taking money out off your pocket and out of your children's mouths. I don't care how much money u have, you can save more by not smoking, or drastically cutting back. Also find yourself a new circle of friends. Ones who are about something! (legal). Lol. Try spiritual groups, self help websites, even Craig's List. People at your college or job, shit, if you ain't got one... find a college or job! (lol). Forget all your old homies, the "REAL" ones who want to party ALL the time, listen to old 2 PAC records, and are always broke, getting drunk , smoking or smashing somebody new , If they haven't changed in all these years, chances are they will not, or are not ready to, U better drop those zeros and hang with some heroes. If not these fools will bring u down to their level quicker than shit!!! REAL TALK...
- gravitate towards people and activities that have.....NOTHING-TO DO- WITH THE PAST!!! (choose the complete opposite).
- Apply for opportunities that your past would usually restrict you from and don't quit until you are accepted at several, If you always wanted to be a doctor apply at a medical facility or nursing home at an entry level position, always wanted to be a chef? Take a low cost cooking class at a local community center.
- Be strong and never stop until your mission is accomplished.
Things Me, (and most people) need in order to be happy..................
- Peace, order and a clean area. Clean up, feng shui, organize, wash those dirty clothes, throw away the things that are not needed, it will work wonders for your mind spirit and attitude.
- increase your income... work from home, find a side hustle, (legal pf course), ask for a raise, get training to get a better job, work an extra job part time. anything other than complaining about the things you need, and how high the bills are.
- Physical Fitness, join your local YMCA, (YWCA) or 24 hour fitness joint, take some walks, Invest in a trainer twice a week. put on some music and work out at home, If you cant do ant of those things cut back or eliminate saturated fats, fried foods, sweets and salty foods. Try going Vegan. The Internet has plenty of resources on healthy, cooking, eating, how to work out.
- Find a friendship, relationship, or lover.... who is truly concerned with your needs, wants, happiness, desires and feelings. Someone who is willing to go above and beyond.
- intellectual stimulation, find people as smart or even smarter than yourself to have interesting, challenging conversations with you. Conversations that don't always agree with your point of view and open your mind to new ways of thinking.
- An Outlet, LET IT OUT!!! Read it! Write it out! Cry it out! Run Jump! Scream! Bake, Cook, Sew,Don't hold in stress and negative emotions. Even try sex! sex, sex, sex, YASS I SAID SEXXXX, It is not a bad or curse word, It is a beautiful thing between consenting adults. but make sure to protect yourself....
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